tag, i'm it.

1. Who is your man? matt. :)

2. How long have you been together? 6 years this fall!

3. How long dated? dated for about 2 years, engaged for 6 months, married for 3 and 1/2 years!

4. How old is your man? 23, and turning 24 in november! weird!

5. Who eats more? he does (but we're both eating a heck of a lot less since we're doing weight watchers, baby! AND it's working! :D)

6. Who said "I love you" first? he did, after a whole year

7. Who is taller? he is, at 6'1"

8. Who sings better? haha, that depends if we're being serious or being fools. i mean that in the best possible way. we're goof balls.

9. Who is smarter? i realize we both have our smarts in different areas, but my initial response is that he is. he has more all-around practical common sense kind of smarts, in addition to his understanding of math, engineering, and well, rocket science. i have smarts in the creative, expressive arenas like writing, music, (except he's good at that too!), psychology, and art.

10. Whose temper is worse? hmm... first response is that mine is. we both have tempers, but perhaps they flare differently, i think. mine flares over minor irritations quite easily (embarrassingly enough), and his flares worse over major incidences. (i.e., pulling under our carport with the bike rack on the roof. i have to laugh when things like that happen, i mean, what do you do??)

11. Who does the laundry? i do!

12. Who takes out the garbage? mostly him, but sometimes me!

13. Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? this is confusing. if you're standing at the bottom of the bed and facing the top, he is on the right.

14. Who pays the bills? mostly me.

15. Who is better with the computer? he is!

16. Who mows the lawn? when we had a lawn, he did. and i water it and plant the flowers. we both do other yard work like raking and shoveling snow. our version of shoveling snow also includes rolling the biggest snowballs we possibly can and making creative fortresses. last winter we lined our front walkway with giant snowballs on either side.

17. Who cooks dinner? matt is always such a big help with this. lately, i've been making more things. but he's quick to help me, and does all the grilling, which he's great at. i'd say we cook together the most.

18. Who drives when you are together? him

19. Who pays when you go out? he usually mans the debit card, but it all comes out of the same account!

20. Who is most stubborn? me (blush)

21. Who is the first to admit when they are wrong? hmm. i think he is. must be my hard-headedness.

22. Whose parents do you see the most? hrmm... lately we've been seeing them equal amounts, i'd say. sometimes we see one set more than the other, interchangeably, but now that we moved we see them the same. we have great parents.

23. Who kissed who first? he did! he even asked first! it was perfect.

24. Who asked who out? he asked me. when he came to my house to pick me up, he was dressed really nice, so my mom ran back to my room and said, 'quick, put on something cuter! he looks really good!' hahaha. i think i had on jeans and a hoodie! silly ol' casual me.

25. Who proposed? he did. it was magnificent. there were candles all over the stage of our church and down the aisle. he led me in, gave me flowers, sang to me, then got down on one knee! i was so surprised i didn't even notice that he dropped the ring!

26. Who is more sensitive? we're both softies... but i think i take things to heart much more easily.

27. Who has more friends? i have no idea... lots of our friends are mutual... but i think he might have more than i do.

28. Who has more siblings? me! i have 2 younger brothers, tim (20) and mitch (15). he has 1 older sister, stephanie (26).

29. Who wears the pants in the family? we decide most all things together, but matt's definitely more the leader. but i do wear pants a lot.

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